PARENTING DIDN'T HAVE TO BE CHALLENGING AND TIME CONSUMING?
Are you feeling overwhelmed and find yourself parenting in ways that don't fulfil you or get you to your desired results?
Is your relationship with your children not exactly going the way you hoped or wanted?
Are you finding that the day simply does not have enough hours in it to get all you need done?
Do you ever think to yourself that there has to be a better way than this?
Here, at The Parenting Solution, we can help you learn to respond to your children in ways that address their emotional needs and yours, to establish strong bonds of connection so that you can communicate more easily and lovingly with them. This results in the children feeling calmer, more cooperative, understood and happier.
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I'LL GUIDE YOU TO BUILD STRONG CONNECTIONS WITH YOUR CHILD...
by creating a sense of self-worth and a belief of value in your children. I support parents by helping them to work through their own big emotions such as overwhelm, fear and anger, to manage their time and to learn how to take care of themselves first so that they can empower their children to be all that they can be. In this way their children's need to act-out, to react in disrupting ways and to seek attention through negative ways diminishes, as parents learn to see and address, in a calm effective way, the needs behind the behaviour.
I SPECIALISE IN SUPPORTING YOU, TO FIND YOUR OWN UNIQUE PARENTING SCRIPT SO THAT YOU CAN GET BACK IN TOUCH WITH YOUR OWN INTUITION ON HOW TO RAISE YOUR CHILDREN,...
to get back in-touch with that feeling you had when your children were born, to that voice in you, that told you you're going to do everything in your power to ensure that your children would have happy, fulfilled lives.
My mission is for all children to know and realise what amazing, unstoppable beings they truly are: to understand and see their own worth and value because the only thing that stops someone from achieving great things is the belief that they can't!
My eyes were opened, when my 3 year-old son could not tell his reflection in the mirror that he was so loved, and I realised that I needed to change my text-book, trial and error ways of parenting. I signed up for an Emotional Freedom Technique course and learned that I could own and manage my own emotions and reactions.
Through the course, I learned that many of my blocks today came from childhood beliefs that I had about myself! This led me to realise that we form our beliefs about ourselves through the perceptions, fears and limitations of others! I knew then that what I wanted for my children was to champion, rather than diminish, their self-esteem, to point out all that they do right rather than point out all their mistakes, to teach them to concentrate on progress rather than perfection, that it's okay to make mistakes rather than to punish them for their mistakes.
I studied and became a certified coach in self esteem for children
and started my journey on this path. I saw such wonderful changes in my family that I decided this, too, could be the solution for many overwhelmed parents and children who are battling and would just love a happy, peaceful, fun family life.
Most significantly, she helped me get out of a dreadful work situation, working for an exploitative boss who wasn’t paying me and having to do a second job in the evenings to pay the bills. I have gone from working 12 hours a day, just to get by, to opening my own business and working just 4 or 5 hours a day. I have never been better financially. Read More >
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You would like some support and guidance around a particular issue that you are struggling with and would like to re-connect with your children so that you can empower and support them.
You realise that your children are acting out as they are feeling some kind of inner turmoil and you would like to learn more about ways to address the inner needs of your children. For those who would like to establish their own unique, fulfilling way of parenting and reacting to their children’s individual needs and wants.
You feel alone in your struggles of parenting and find it all rather hard and overwhelming. This is your time! You CAN be that parent you once dreamed of being and establish strong connections with your children. For those who want to see their children really thrive, do well and begin to live their lives with purpose and direction, all the time knowing what wonderful awesome beings they truly are.
You may have tried different parenting text-book approaches and have had some things work for one day and not another and have been through the trial-and-error approaches only to have to resort to “shouty” voice yet again! You may have concerns about how your child is able to interact socially. You know you will benefit from the right support and clear practical guidance.
You would love to dive in deep and clear out your own emotional blocks and issues. You realise that things have happened to you in the past and it is affecting the parent you are today. You keep trying to insert more positive parenting ways and techniques into the way you parent today, but only manage to keep them up for a short period of time before you fall into old ways and habits, only to find that you then beat yourself up about it.
You have realised that there has to be an easier way to maintain your positive goals and intentions. You are ready to address your concerns and focus on the right solutions for you.
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I'LL GUIDE YOU TO BUILD STRONG CONNECTIONS WITH YOUR CHILD...
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"Before I started working with Nicole, my son was having frequent outbursts of anger. He would get himself really worked up, and would lash out at anyone who was around him and especially at me. I dealt with this by punishing him to let him know that this behaviour was not acceptable! But things were getting worse.... read more
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